I don't know for sure, but I think that most mothers probably take for granted that their little ones point at things. According to the developmental charts, I think it should happen somewhere about 15 months. Noah was never a pointer. I was pretty good at the guessing game, so it never really bothered me because I pretty much knew what he wanted. It wasn't until we started therapy that I realized how big of a communication tool pointing is, and how important it was for Noah to do it.
And now at 22 months, he is finally pointing, and I love it. I am so proud of him.
And everytime he points to something, I am very quick to acknowledge what he is pointing at.
And of course, if he is pointing to something he wants, whether it is something he usually gets to have or not, I almost always give it to him.
Because really, shouldn't good communication be rewarded?

You know, he's a pretty smart boy. I wonder how long until he figures it out and starts using this to his advantage.