After Noah's initial testing, I decided not to be that mom who said, "nothing is wrong with my child." I also didn't want to be that mom who totally freaks out either. And, although I did have a week or two of panic over Noah's delay, I'd like to think I settled somewhere in the middle.
I mentioned earlier that the state funded program had us on a waiting list. But as a mom, when someone tells you that your child needs this, this, and this, waiting lists are not what I want to hear. Dean and I decided to start right away with private therapy. Because really, when you sign up for having kids did anyone say that they would be cheap? So, we enrolled Noah in both private speech therapy and private occupational therapy (OT). Now for those of you who have met Noah, you may be wondering why he needs occupational therapy. While Noah is quite adept at any and all types of motor skills, the occupational therapy is there to help him attend better to tasks. So, with referrals in hand, off we go to speech for an hour three times a week, and OT for an hour twice a week. After a week of sessions, Noah is really starting to improve, and I am learing so many things to help our play at home. After about a month, the state funded services finally kick in. This means that while we already have something 5 days a week, we are now adding an additional speech for 30 minutes one day a week, an additional OT one day a week, and a teacher that comes to our house once a week. Confused yet? My IPhone calendar is overloaded, and it is the only way I am able to keep our schedule straight. Good thing I don't have anything else to do in Miami.
So, here is how we fit everything in.
Monday: Speech Therapy (1hr) 1:00 PM
Tuesday: OT (1hr) 2:00 PM
Wednesday: Speech Therapy (1hr) 1:00 PM
Thursday: Teacher (1hr) 8:00 AM, OT (30min) 11:00 AM, OT (1hr) 3:00 PM
Friday: Speech Therapy (1hr) 1:00 PM
Saturday: Speech Therapy (30min) 9:30 AM
Somewhere in the middle of this schedule, we manage to fit in a few meetup playdates, My Gym classes, naps in his crib, naps in the car, lunches on the go, and somehow, we get it all done.
Today is Sunday. A day of rest. A day of reflection and pray. And, a day to thank God for this beautiful little boy who has blessed and enriched our lives in so many ways, and although our weeks are now full, I am so happy and proud to be able to offer our little guy the help he needs to be the best person he can be.