Noah knows the word no. He also knows how to communicate the word no. Sometimes it's cute, like when he says, "uh uh, uh uh" shaking his whole body from side to side. Sometimes it's not, like this morning.
Noah had
My Gym this morning. We had kind of a full day with a car nap planned for later in the day, so gym class was sort of a lagniappe activity. I have a habit of always keeping a fresh sippy cup in my bag. Noah knows this so as soon as we got to gym, he decided he was thirsty. He was whining and trying to get into my bag for his sip. I gave it to him in the lobby, but of course he didn't want to give it up to go to class. So, if I took the sip and tried to lead him into gym, he fell to the floor kicking and screaming. If I let him keep the sip, but stopped him from going into gym, he fell to the floor kicking and screaming. The "no food or drink" sign was staring me in the face, and I was not letting him in that gym with his sip. We were at what you call an impasse, and Noah was not willing to bend. Rules being rules, I carried him sip in hand kicking and screaming to the car. And, as soon as I got him buckled, he threw the sip down and calmed for the ride home.
This display is just par for the course of what I've been getting the last few weeks. I've heard of the terrible twos, but Noah is still two months away. Sigh. What happened to my sweet little boy. Noah's speech therapist sees these tantrums as a good sign. He's communicating his wants. The tricky part is showing him that I understand. I spend a lot of time saying, "oh, you're upset. I'm sorry you're upset, but..." I'm trying to ride this phase out gracefully, but it is beating me down. Well, today is done, and in the words of my onscreen idol, "tomorrow is another day." Wish us luck!